Life is not about busy schedules.It's all about priorities

“Life is not about busy schedules.It’s all about priorities. You will always prioritise the things which matters to you, the most and put aside the things which does not bother you at all”.This phrase from an unknown source strikes me a lot which eventually made me us  to write this blog and expand it in our own context.

                Life today is very fast paced. Globalisation has made this world a small village with technologies like high speed Internet, express-trains and  social networking to name a few. We have long lists of telephone directories and hundreds (thousands too!!) of facebook friends but how many of them are really important to us (think a while!!!).We often face a common situation in chatting via a cellphone saying “I am very busy these days and so was unable to stay in touch.”(Ajikali mur timei nai.Bahut busy schedule mur {Assamese}).But mates, it’s just a “sugar coated” version of the phrase “Please do not disturb me. You are not that important  to me. U are not in my priority list”. Just think for a while-Are we  really soooo  busy with our life that we cannot be in-touch with people who were once toppers in our priority list,cannot even genuinely talk with the person  but can stay connected to our soul-mates  24*7.These are the undesirable traits that  self centred and self absorbed homo sapiens possess and sadly number of such homo sapiens are increasing day by day.  At this point I(Bhargab) remember the words said by ChetanBhagat on living a balanced successful life. He said:  “Life is one of those races in nursery where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point in coming first. Similarly in life health and relationship are marble”.

                        Some people hurt by words and some by action. But the biggest hurt we believe is when someone starts ignoring you;making u feel worthless & useless. Having a word,a genuine conversation ,sharing thoughts with those who cares for us  does not compel us to spend a colossal amount of time.It’s just a sweet, noble and  most evidently a social gesture from our side.It  seems ugly and squalid on our part, when we prioritise relationships & friendships.C’mon it can’t be like my mum is more important than my father;my brother is more important then my father blah blah...And  that friend is more important than the one who recently became my friend...blah blah. Every relation has its own identity,it’s own importance.Comparing relationships and making a priority list of relationships, sounds sooo materialistic. No doubt that some people are more important to us and some are less. But that doesn’t mean we’re gonna kick the less important one. In short, no matter what, we should value those who value us,care those who care for us, luv those who luv us.( by this love I (@m$)didn't mean ..I want to marry u wala Luv. I (@m$) meant the genuine formal human social love)

                      To avoid being a sadist..that’s to stop hurting people, we should try avoiding the word “BUSY”  during conversation with someone who really cares for you. While on a phone conversation, we should always give importance to the other person. Even if you are very busy you need not show it to the other person always. Do take some initiative to go through your cell phone contacts and get in touch with your old friends, be a little down to earth, avoid being self- centred and self absorbed at least for some time (it gives a repelling feeling to people). This is what can be recommended to those who got off the track of being a good human being.But for those for whom being rude,self centred is their in-born personality trait and are so adamant to reform it “Get well soon.May GOD BLESS U”.We human beings can’t help u .You are out of this world.You are Bhagban bharose”

                    Thanks for your valuable time in reading and please do drop  a comment in the comment section.Your feed backs would really encourage us to improve in our forthcoming blogs.

                                                                                         Regards
                                                           Bhargab Kakati and Sampriti Madhukulya